Patience
Patience
was a dog. He looked like every other
dog in this part of the world: pointy
snout, shades of brown and white, slowly healing, scabby wounds at the tip of each
triangular ear, oozing, fly-paper wound on the top of his head. Maybe he was a little better nourished than
most. Patience belonged to one of the
families in our courtyard, and therefore he belonged to all of us, since
private property, and privacy, for that matter, are foreign concepts here. Patience guarded the courtyard and barked
loudly at strangers entering or simply appearing outside the gate. He chased away other dogs and any pigs,
goats, sheep or chickens that didn’t belong here. He accompanied us to the
market or the library, bounding joyously through tall grass but never straying
far, and growled at would-be aggressors, either human or canine.
I was
probably the only person who actually touched Patience, petting him and
applying Neosporin to his wounds. He
really started liking me after I let him eat the heads of my friture (small, whole fried fish), for
which I was reprimanded because I was spoiling him. His family did feed him, but kept him chained
much of the day so he wouldn’t stick his nose in the corn flour spread on a
tarp to bleach in the sun of the courtyard or the rain water so carefully
collected in basins and buckets during a deluge.
[I probably
should have eaten the fish heads myself (no way!), or at least left them for
one of the kids. No matter what I leave
on my plate, be it half of the much too large serving of rice they offer me, or
just the bones from a piece of fish, even if I’ve spit them out, someone will
eat it.* When the first riz gras (risotto) prepared in a new pot
stuck badly, I added water and soaked my cooking spoons with the mess for a
while. Once I’d scraped the rice loose I
offered the neighbor this brew to give to Patience. The dog never had a chance; the girl ate it
herself. There’s no point trying to cook
enough for more than one meal at a time, since there’s always someone wanting
to ‘taste’ whatever I’ve concocted. They
are equally generous with the foods they prepare, though.]
Patience
was only a dog. Monday evening he
accompanied (‘followed’) the other courtyard family (not his true owners) to
the market. When he was hit by a truck
and badly lamed on the paved road, his owners contacted a Dagara family who
administered the coup de grace and
ate him.
Muslims
will not eat dog, but several other ethnic groups do.**
It was somewhat gratifying
that the girl who fed Patience every day wept at his demise and at the fact
that he had become someone’s much appreciated dinner. During PST, one of our cultural awareness
activities called for American and Burkinabe groups to illustrate their vision
of family and friends in a graphic with concentric circles. The Burkinabe chuckled when Americans
included the family pet or pets in the inner circle. For the HCNs (host country nationals), all
animals, even Patience, belong ‘either way off the chart or in the freezer with
the rest of the meat.’
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Young dolo drinker. A calabash full, or about a liter, costs a dime. |
As upsetting as the loss of
Patience may be, I can’t help feeling some relief that the casualty was ‘only a
dog,’ and not a child, or one of the many cripples who cross the pavement at a
snail’s pace to get to the market. The goudron is the main drag of the
village. It is lined with shops, cafés, cabarets (where people hang out enjoying
a fermented millet beverage called dolo),
repair shops, etc., and at any given time it is populated with pedestrians,
bikes, scooters and the occasional automobile.
People socialize in the middle of this road. Mechanics lie under vehicles with their legs
sticking out into the road. Children
race along the road propelling hoops, bike tires or wheels with sticks. Women with babies on their backs and loads of
firewood on their heads make slow progress and lack the luxury of rear-view
mirrors.
The big truck that hit
Patience did not even slow down. The
trucks transporting goods to and from Ghana are the reason the road is paved at
all. Sometimes they blast their horns as
they enter the village, but not always.
They own the road. Why are there
no speed bumps? I’m told the village
does not have the right to install gendarmes
couchés (policemen lying in bed) on this international highway. Without speed bumps or outright road blocks,
the local police on their motorbikes are about as effective as the ‘slow down’
signs at either end of the village. I’ve
been advised to try writing a letter to the ministry of public works, and to
have patience.
*/** If you’re not tired of reading, here’s a description of
traditional Dagara eating habits from Of
Water and the Spirit by Malidoma Somé, a man between cultures:
“Indigenous life is a constant
physical exercise. From plowing the
earth with your bare hands to running after an antelope during the hunt to
carrying huge stacks of wood for the fireplace, the body is constantly involved
in expending energy. It is not
surprising that my people don’t have weight problems. The energy each person burns during the day
is incalculable. No wonder the amount of
food available always seems insufficient.
My younger brothers always behaved as if they were starving. They would gulp down an enormous dish and yet
keep sniffing around as if they had not eaten anything at all. Guillaume told me one day that he never knew
what satiation felt like. He said he
stopped eating when there was no more to eat.
When my mother prepared meals,
she always made two servings, one for the males and the other for the
females. Father presided over male meals
and she presided over female meals. We
always sat in a circle around the dish.
The grown-ups sat on stools, and the young sat with their left legs
folded under their butts as a seat. The
evening meal, about ten o’clock, was the most important of the day. It gathered together the whole family,
including visitors, since in the Dagara tradition no visitor can be denied
food.
Dinner began with the
hand-washing ceremony. The male leader
was first, followed by the next-oldest person and so on till the youngest had
washed. The first bit of food was always
offered to the spirit of the earth shrine.
This is called a clearance bite.
My father always performed this ceremony. He would take a bit of cake [corn or millet
cake, akin to corn-meal mush] and dip it into the sauce, say something rapidly
between his teeth, and then throw the thing away as if he did not want it. The dog loved it – even though it was not
destined for him but for the Spirit of the earth shrine. Sometimes the dog would catch it in midair
and swallow it at once as if he did not want to know what it tasted like.
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To, or millet cake, and sorrel sauce. |
Then my father, who pretended
not to pay attention to the fate of the first bite, would prepare another for
himself. I noticed that his portion was
larger. He would stick the whole portion
into his mouth, hold it in there for a few seconds, and then nod his head
before swallowing it. This was the
signal that the dinner was safe to eat.
Seven hands assaulted the dishes, determined to empty them, and the meal
was enjoyed in silence. For the Dagara,
there is no such thing as a plate for each person, because in the context of a
real community, separate plates cultivate separateness. The older people were supposed to stop eating
first, allowing the youngest to finish it all up. Anyone who burps is expected to stop eating
immediately, as that indicates that he or she is full.
Eating with one’s hands is a
fascinating art. You are supposed to
lick your fingers one by one after each swallow, starting with the front of
each of the four fingers, then their backs, and finally the thumb. Then the entire finger must be taken into the
mouth and carefully sucked. The person
presiding over the meal is in charge of making sure that these rules are
followed carefully. Consequently, any
voice you hear during a meal is the leader’s voice correcting bad eating habits
mostly related to finger-licking.
Children who are very hungry don’t take the time to lick their fingers
properly, so someone must be there to instruct them in good table manners.”
Malidoma Patrice Somé, Of Water and the Spirit, ISBN
0-14-019496-7: tedious and at times
downright freaky, but a fascinating look at the Dagara culture, spiritual
initiation and rite of passage, the pain and damage wrought by colonization and
missionaries, the ability to commune with ancestral spirits, and spiritual
travel to other worlds. Healers,
diviners, ritual initiation…. A grain of
salt wasn’t quite sufficient for me! But
there is going to be an initiation here in Dissin this year. Nowadays they only perform the initiation
every few years, when enough eligible young men are available. Not everyone is suited for it, and it can be
fatal.